Whose Class is it Anyway?

I often hear the phrase, “Sorry I missed your class.” It’s a polite sentiment, but let’s be clear: you didn’t miss my class. You missed YOUR class.

As an instructor, I conduct classes with the goal of providing the best possible training environment. I prepare, I plan, I push, and I guide. But at the end of the day, I’m not the one who loses out when you’re absent — you are.

To Parents:When your child misses class, they’re not missing time with me; they’re missing an opportunity to build skills, discipline, and confidence. Taekwondo isn’t just another after-school activity. It’s a process, and consistency is the cornerstone of progress. Encouraging your child to show up regularly teaches them accountability and resilience. Life gets busy, but making class a priority helps your child learn the value of commitment.

To Older Students:If you’re old enough to tie your own belt, you’re old enough to take ownership of your training. This is your journey. No one else can do the work for you. I can guide, correct, and inspire, but you have to show up, stay focused, and put in the effort.

Ask yourself:

Am I showing up consistently?

Do I stay engaged during class?

Am I practicing outside of class to reinforce what I’ve learned?

Do I ask questions when something isn’t clear?

Missing class isn’t just about skipping a workout. It’s missing a chance to improve, to overcome challenges, and to grow.

The responsibility is yours. The progress is yours. The class is YOURS.

Next time you miss class, don’t apologize to me. Reflect on what you missed for yourself. And then get back on the mat, ready to own it.